Helena shares her poignant journey, from a childhood dream of becoming a vet to grappling with profound loss at a young age. Despite facing bullying, anxiety, and depression, she finds strength in her father's unwavering support and learns the importance of staying true to herself. Through resilience and determination, she overcomes academic struggles and societal pressures, emerging stronger and more determined to pursue her passion. With her dad's inspiration, Helena sets out to support others facing similar challenges, determined to be a beacon of hope and encouragement on their own paths to fulfilment. Her story embodies the power of perseverance and the belief that success comes to those who never give up.
My name is Helena, and this is my story.
From the time I was three, I had a dream—to become a vet. My love for animals was pure and unwavering. I grew up pretending to be a vet, fully immersed in the joy of my imagination. Central to my childhood was my golden retriever, Alex. He was more than a pet; he was my best friend and the sweetest soul I had ever known. Dogs truly are the greatest gift—angels sent from heaven to heal our hearts.
When I was fourteen, Alex passed away. The grief was overwhelming. As if that loss wasn't enough, two weeks later, my great-grandfather also passed away. At fourteen, I was grappling with the loss of two cherished souls. My heart was heavy, and I felt like my world was crumbling.
At eleven, I was given the responsibility of caring for Alex and babysitting my four younger siblings. This forced me to mature quickly and become more aware of my surroundings. Despite my efforts, I struggled at school. I was bullied mercilessly by a new kid for reasons I never understood. My academic performance was dismal, and tutoring sessions seemed futile. I would come home and collapse into bed, defeated. But my dad never gave up on me. He would sit with me, learning the material himself just to help me through my struggles. His unwavering support was my lifeline.
Starting college was another daunting chapter. My anxiety, present since childhood, flared up. I was bullied for my appearance and lack of makeup. By age fourteen, the bullying intensified, and I sank into depression. I felt immense pressure to conform, to be someone I wasn't. I started wearing makeup, dressing differently, and altering my appearance just to fit in. But in doing so, I lost sight of who I truly was.
At fifteen, as my GCSE exams loomed, I realized I wasn't prepared. I had wasted time following others and neglecting my studies. Determined to change, I researched effective study methods and found a strategy that worked for me. With my dad's support, I managed to improve my grades significantly in just two months. This experience taught me that I could achieve anything if I put my mind to it.
When I was sixteen, I started sixth form with a newfound resolve. I had learned from my GCSEs that I could accomplish my goals by being true to myself. I began working out, socializing more, and laying out a clear plan to become a vet. Despite facing discouragement from some teachers and students, I persevered, bolstered by my dad's encouragement. He shared a quote with me that has stayed with me: "The more times you fall, the stronger you are once you get back up."
I learned to ignore negative comments and grew stronger, both mentally and physically. My goal to become a vet remains steadfast, fueled by determination and motivation. I started this website to help those who might not have someone like my dad in their lives. I want everyone struggling to know they are not alone. I want to support and uplift them, just as my dad did for me. Talking about your problems is far better than bottling them up. I want to be that person for you, to help you lead a happier, healthier life.
"OUR GREATEST WEAKNESS LIES IN GIVING UP. THE MOST CERTAIN WAY TO SUCCEED IS ALWAYS TO TRY JUST ONE MORE TIME." - Thomas Edison
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